The Centered Cover Story: Meet The Ripplemaker

Ping Chu RippleMaker

Katherine Young interviewed me several months ago. We spent quite a long time together and I was struck by her thoroughness and professionalism. I just found out that that interview has turned into this brilliant cover story in Centered on Taipei magazine (May 09). Thank you, Katherine, Roma Mehta and Emily McMurrinfor helping us to tell our story.

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Meet The Ripplemaker

Text: Katherine Young, Images: Emily McMurrin

Yes, a ripple maker I will be,

as I cast these thoughts to you…

Pick your pebbles carefully,

Cause you’re a ripple maker too!

Denise Lanford

Meet the Daymaker

At a recent birthday dinner at Nonzero, I observed owner Ping Chu, stylishly outfitted in black and white, as he played consummate host to a group of forward thinking movers and shakers in Taipei. While skillfully engaging and tending to his guests, he made time to periodically slip back to us, nestled in a back corner, usually with someone on his arm that he wanted to make sure we “knew.” When, in the course of one of these forays, he got wind of our celebration, he grinned widely and disappeared, only to return shortly after with a decadent double chocolate cake.

Mind you – this was my first introduction to Mr. Ping Chu.

Days later in our correspondence to arrange a meeting, I beheld, under his name: “Businessmaker, Daymaker, Ripplemaker.”

You can’t help but smile when reading that, can you?

So, who is this man and where do such titles come from? After several hours with Ping and Centered editor, Roma Mehta, I feel as though I am just scratching the surface. He is indeed a maker of all sorts and through our conversations I gained a sense of this man-a man who prefers to rephrase the commonly asked, “How do I balance work and life?” to what is in his mind a better question: “How can I integrate work and life?” He spoke at a conference in November about ‘making a life rather than making a living. “ With this in mind, he aims to create sustainable and holistic businesses, where ultimately, the business doesn’t actually need him to proceed, allowing Ping to realize what he termed as his primary goal when he entered this realm – freedom. By all counts it seems to be working. He still manages without a mobile phone – though he admitted the recently unveiled iphone is awfully tempting.

Ping has arrived at his views through vast business experience and travel, paired with exacting analysis and appreciation of what works and what doesn’t in practice. A consummate storyteller, we reveled in fascinating snippets of his life, in particular, those that have shaped his values and views.

When Ping discovered the Beatles and the world they inhabited while in high school, his desire to travel was piqued. After completing his degree in Taiwan, he went stateside to do a BS in Pharmaceutical Science; at this point he thought he was all set – “I’m a pharmacist” rolled easily off the tongue. But then came a critical twist in his life – his father became ill. He put all on hold, returned to Taiwan and spent six months with his father in the hospital. In that suspended space between life and death, he found himself questioning five more years in school and a life that was, “all set.” When his father passed away, his obligations were few, and so he set out on a year of wandering. Through the United States and Europe his travels took him, and in that time, he clarified his decision not to return to his pharmacy program, or as he put it, “to step off the treadmill” and avoid the “salary trap.”

Meet the Businessmaker

Ping Chu Ripplemaker 2

Even at that time Ping was drawn to products of quality, particularly a certain black and white bottle that raised the standard on any hair care products he’d previously used. As I gazed at Ping in his elegant black jacket with its mandarin collar and crisp three button white shirt, I easily envisioned him and his excitement upon discovering the likes of Paul Mitchell, a new company offering a philosophy of hair care and real style. He paused here in the story, inspired by these memories it seemed, to offer a bit of advice to the young: Enrich your life experience for you never know what will happen. Replace the fear of uncertainty with curiosity. Ping was curious about that black and white bottle and what it represented, and so he became a Paul Mitchell enthusiast, and it seems Mr. Mitchell reciprocated!

His seemingly simple decision to use these products led to a rather extraordinary string of events. While trying out a string of jobs in the United States, from waiter to salesman, Mitchell asked Ping if he would bring his line to Taiwan. The early stages were markedly humble – with stock lining makeshift shelves in his living room and his mother labeling bottles, he set out to introduce a philosophy of hair care that was diametrically opposed to the then Taiwanese approach of having your hair washed exclusively at the beauty parlor. Ping educated and illustrated how one must give, in order to get – in this case, he showed salons that by ‘liberating’ their customers and teaching them how to take care of their own hair, they could actually increase their income by focusing on more technical, work intensive processes. Ping knew at this stage that he wanted to create a business based on trust, community, common sense and honesty. He offered all the salons the guarantee that he would buy back any product that they didn’t sell, and he brought in sales people who wanted to be part of a team. He paid them a salary, rather than making it contingent upon sales, and created the idea that success was not based on the “master sales person” but rather the integral functioning of all involved in the process. This idea that success is shared by all continues to define his businesses today.

Over time, he developed a friendship with Aveda founder, Horst Rechelbacher, who came to Taiwan annually when sourcing products. With similar philosophies and interests, theirs was a natural fit. The rest is history.

Long before Nonzero’s arrival, Ping had loved the idea of opening a restaurant that would translate the philosophy of Aveda into the culinary arena, but had no practical knowledge or idea how to approach it. He envisioned a community eatery that focused on taste through the use of organic foods, and that highlighted an aesthetic presentation.

Ping Chu 2

Nonzero, now two years old, has undergone several transformations since it opened, and if you haven’t visited lately, you’ll be tantalized when you do. Gazing at the restaurant and street front, my eyes dart back and forth – do I believe what I am seeing? Allowing my eyes to linger, I realize that the street is in fact quite lovely. Upon designing his office on this narrow alley – there is an Aveda Salon on the street as well – Ping resolved to, “stop complaining how ugly Taipei is and do something about it.” With that, he gave his designer free reign to emphasize the outside view, the goal being to offer “a gift to the neighbors.” The ripple of this action inspired the health food store/restaurant across the street to make their own effort to beautify the block by placing a table and benches outside their shop. Now, the rest of us get to revel in a quaint stretch of downtown Taipei, complete with an outdoor iron sculpture. When the corner building (now Nonzero’s location) opened up, the owners, residents on the street and witnesses of the street’s transformation, approached Ping, “I want you to have it. I’ll wait for you.”

Ping put the idea out into the universe as only a good ripplemaker can and in due time met the critical component, an experienced restauranteur, who could help him transmit the dream into reality. “I have a great space,” he told him – “help me.” Nonzero was born. He has dreamt into reality the most prepossessing watering hole. The style, be it shabby chic, rough luxury or recycled beauty, is tasteful and accommodating. Glass shelving shows off French porcelain and serves to divide the two rooms, while natural light streams in. Both intimate and larger community style tables grace the restaurant, the latter crafted from handsome pieces of wood and stay true to Ping’s vision of offering ‘liked minded’ a meeting point to engage and share ideas.

The day’s vegetables are on display in an open refrigerator at the back, and recently our waiter encouraged us to peruse the offerings before selecting, reminding me of meals in a rustic Italian trattoria. All produce is sourced locally, and much boasts special distinction– organically grown by Pierre Loisel – on the menu. Ping’s experience of the last two years has inspired some changes both in the physical layout of the space and the menu. We were there recently for the latest unveiling, which continues to include all dishes ala carte and as well as set menus for 700nt, 900nt and 1500nt. Our appetites were sated and our taste buds tickled with the 700nt menu: homemade bread for dipping in a beautiful French olive oil and aged Italian balsamic; hearty mushroom soup; traditional Panzanella (Italian bread salad); perfectly cooked risotto (free range chicken or local mushroom) followed by an Aveda like herbal tea infusion. As local Taiwanese mushrooms were the specialty of the day, we also opted to savor one grilled. It arrived on a rustic wooden cutting board accompanied by a pungent pepper spread. The elegant simplicity of the food; the thoughtful service, including a visit from the able chef; the warm atmosphere – they all intertwine so seamlessly that we shook our heads in disbelief when we finally wandered out late into the evening.

Meet the ripplemaker.

Ping expressed gratitude often for the luck that he has had in his life; certainly, luck has played a role, but infused, no doubt, with a forward thinking approach to business and living. Aveda has a dedicated and ‘critical number of customers that support it,” allowing him to engage and support many other ideas and beliefs close to his heart, Nonzero being one of them. The soiree when I first met Ping was, in fact, part of his broader vision to inspire intellectual discourse in Taipei. And indeed the group that night gathered together, around his community tables, sharing ideas and discussing the future. He takes this quest on in many ways-his blog, his restaurant, his involvement in BQ (the Big Question) and his support of TEDxTaipei. Through each he aims to inspire active communication and dialogue and to raise consciousness. Kindly, he has also provided a venue where such folk can convene.

The effects from Ping’s beliefs and actions seem to be reaching greater distances these days. His blog reads – Be inspired Get involved Take action – he certainly seems to embrace this credo on a daily basis.

幸福可以自己決定

我們先問,男人的幸福跟女人有什麼不同?男人的幸福感是什麼樣子?對我而言的幸福感,我個人,身為男人,我不會說我好幸福喔,我會說我好高興、我好快樂。

但女人幸福感,一般來說就是很傳統的幸福,因為一聽到幸福這兩個字,傳統的價值就跑進來了—很乖、顧家老實的先生;小孩聰明 、讀書認真可以進哈佛;年紀大了子孫滿堂、身體健康、安安順順不愁錢花 ……基本上就是傳統的幸福概念,但這些都是非常被動的幸福觀,可是我們應該用現代的觀念來轉換一下傳統的幸福感,讓幸福感成為主動追求的,而不是追尋過去的定義。小孩不乖就不幸福了?老公花天酒地就不幸福了?應該要有新概念,主動追求你的幸福感,所以你可以掌握自己的人生。我自己不會說我很幸福,我會說我的生活很滿足,因為幸福這兩個字會有標籤被貼上傳統的價值,老公不乖、小孩闖禍、跟公婆有複雜的關係……這都是自己騙自己。所以我們要新定義幸福,也就是不要戴面具過日子,不要因為扮太多的角色,結果把自己完完整整撕裂了,傳統的女人要相夫教子,同時間工作要愉快,到其他場合要有其他的樣子…..總之要很稱職的扮演很多角色,結果沒有時間扮演自己。當然這個概念也不是新的,但也不是女性自覺或女性主義,重點是要自己帶自己走出傳統幸福的定義,要靠自己努力來獲得。

以前的女性想主動都不行,因為那個社會年代不允許,而且傳統男性搞不好大男人主義,就算很愛很愛你,也只希望你把家照顧好就好,希望你依賴他就好,不要擔心其他的事情。因為教育不同,當時沒有開放成長的環境。但現在女性已經沒有辦法過這種生活了。

所以我覺得幸福是找來的,你可以選擇讓自己活得很快樂。寬恕也是種幸福,有勇氣的人才會寬容。

要解放,創造新的趨勢,這不是單純的女性主義,也不是要跟男人爭,就是要做自己!就算你的幸福是傳統的,也沒什麼不好。但一定要主動爭取獲得,這樣才是真的幸福。

要快樂。一說幸福好像馬上都變成其他的東西,但我第一個會說快樂。而且如果要快樂,你必須抓住自己的負面思考,其實負面思考也是被動的,羨慕別人,覺得自己很倒楣……我們要時常訓練自己了解自己有哪些負面思考,好讓自己進步,然後就能夠實實在在地知道自己在照鏡子的時候知道鏡子理的人是誰。你四十歲了做牙齒矯正,這是你自己的權力!你對自己的身體做什麼是你自己擁有的權力,不要在乎別人。那就是幸福!真的做自己了。就算要決定做失敗者又怎樣呢?只是很可惜我們中國人沒有做失敗者的概念,但美國就不會。

中國文化不允許失敗,但你只要追尋新的東西,有好奇心時,就不會永遠只做追隨者,不會做錯事情的生活其實並不有趣。第二個是找到自己的強項,自己的強項跟工作相合,自然就會快樂了。

沒錯!不是社會給的,不是親戚朋友給的,雖然可能有更多新責任要承擔,但是,是開心的。女性要主動,別自怨自艾,要找到生活的意義,一個更強的決心,做任何事情都要找個更崇高的目標。我們也可以來找尋新模式,讓你成功並擁有靈魂,譬如多接觸年輕人,讓不同的思考種子在你身上,慢慢了解自己需要什麼,我的想法很簡單,練習找到讓你開心的事情,這或許就是一種崇高的目標,用物質得到是愉悅,不是幸福。你只要有崇高的目標就會幸福。

有目標的人過得都非常快樂,或許生活過得辛苦,但情緒上是快樂的,看現在不快樂不幸福的女性,基本上,都不involve整個社會也不involve自己。

沒錯!就是involve,還要engage。

看那些穿著名牌,但跟世界還有社會沒有真正的engage,那些engage都是消費,但你熱衷消費某種品牌時,並非一個崇高目標。

那種人擁有的是pleasure,那些pleasure都是虛榮心,沒有什麼好或不好,愛美是人的天性。但一定要在買名牌這種物質主義過程中找到意義。工作很重要,因為跟社會有互動,但不要為了薪水而讓自己困住了,如果沒辦法從工作中獲得樂趣充實自己,這樣怎麼會快樂呢?對女性而言,你要參與自己的生活。

美國有個電視節目做過一個研究,在一個叫做 Notre Dame的修道院裡,研究一群修女。他們的生活作息模式通通一模一樣,因此在此研究基準相同之下,發現快樂的修女比較長壽,樂觀知足的人就是會活的比較久。因為你對生活的態度是一種讚美與感恩。快樂跟幸服福是有關係的,所以我覺得幸福是找來的,你可以選擇讓自己活得快樂。寬恕也是種幸福,有勇氣的人才會寬容。寬容也在文化裡頭,像美國就允許破產。

破產反而是種經驗。因為你破產了所以你有不同的學習,將來才不會又錯一次。這種事在台灣很難找到,因為我們的文化不允許失敗,所以大家都不敢做很多事情,這個文化是沒有辦法,但自己的幸福感,是寬容的,是參與的,這是你可以決定的。

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Post by pingchu20**於(2007/08/09 10:57:50)回應

Dear Amy: You are absolutely right on. I agree with you 100 percent. 🙂 Welcome to the Nonzero Cafe!

Post by amy18**於(2007/08/09 00:50:21)回應

沒錯 幸福真的是自己找的 很多人常常會自怨自哀 去羨慕別人 其實不論你是何人 扮演著什麼角色 過怎麼樣的生活 知足就是幸福 但現實總是很難 我看了文章後 覺得要努力做到這點 必竟人生是自己的 很多事都是自己去決定的 何謂幸福就是自己最清楚 加油了

Post by pingchu20**於(2007/07/29 16:19:22)回應

Dear Fawn: You are absolutely right. People also did not spend enough time with themselves. This is why the solitude is an important ritual people should embrace. Thank you for joining this dialogue.

Post by dearfawn**於(2007/07/22 06:40:56)回應

If you can deeply understand yourself then you’ll grab what’s welfare or happiness. The question is most of people hardly understand themselves.

Post by pingchu20**於(2007/07/15 06:25:10)回應

Dear Larua: You are a very lucky person. We all have choices. To confront the adversity with courage is a choice. The important thing is to feel that you are not powerless.You can create your destiny.

Post by laura_y_cha**於(2007/07/12 11:26:48)回應

有許多朋友常問我.為什麼經常保持在快樂的?態?其實我的方法與特質每個人都有.我是個極容易滿足的人.在人生每個階段該擁什麼.我會編織夢想但確順服現實.我總看那些比我辛苦的人而對自己所擁有的更加珍惜.這樣的個性讓我在預到困難也都正面思考.我非常愛聽演講.聽聽別人的人生觀.努力的用在自己身上.更重要的是影響身邊的成為快樂的人.嗯!我也有我的困境但除了勇敢面對好像也別無選擇.哈!這就是人生…laura

Post by pingchu20**於(2007/06/28 10:36:49)回應

Well said, thank you, Paley.

Post by paley99**於(2007/06/27 00:51:46)回應

人總是揹負著許多的責任,要依循別人來給予自己幸福,快樂的日子就不會很多了!知足就會增加幸福,不論是否一個人過,願大家都覺得自己是幸福的!加油!

Post by pingchu20**於(2007/06/23 23:57:20)回應

Anny: please remember that we all are accountable for our own behavior and decision.When you are willing to take the responsibility, you dont’ need to forgive anything or anyone.You are free at last.

Post by anny6782**於(2007/06/19 14:08:55)回應

寬恕也是種幸福, 有勇氣的人才會寬容曾經我以為『他』會是我最終的伴侶……想不到走到了八年後…我們還是分開了….. 或許….這是老天爺要送給我關於『寬怨』的這門功課吧!所以我一定會努力的........

Post by janny5808**於(2007/06/14 10:26:43)回應

我覺得幸福是每當遇到困難能冷靜、輕鬆面對、不逃避,勇敢一起解決,一起檢討、反省後,那份成就….就是幸福……..

Post by chenhs20**於(2007/06/12 17:50:19)回應

幸福是找來的……..這句話形容的很貼切

Post by yoyo5411a**於(2007/06/12 15:43:31)回應

幸福?當你還活在這世上多給別人一些溫暖.當接受的人給你一個笑容那種感覺是彼此都幸福.溫暖

Post by virginia111**於(2007/04/19 15:15:12)回應

太棒了我非常同意 幸福的主權在我們 自己

Post by i26**於(2007/03/11 06:25:59)回應

如人飲水`冷暖自知;只是.大部分的人.都是健忘的……原來.幸福就在心中…….。

Post by ontic.**於(2007/02/26 10:38:18)回應

做錯事情也是一件幸福~

Post bysuesue04**於(2007/02/20 10:59:31)回應

我喜歡文章裡二句話: 寬恕也是種幸福, 有勇氣的人才會寬容

Post by lws01**於(2007/02/17 09:21:21)回應

的確…..有太多人不懂的幸福是什麼 才會怨天怨地…..

Post by pingchu20**於(2007/01/26 03:25:07)回應

Madly in love definitely will bring you happiness. However, we also fall out of love. Therefore, living in the moment, staying positive, detachment and accepting the impermanence are facts of life. It is a good sign that people realize that money can only increase your happiness so much. Be a satisficer, not a maximizer, will definitely help you to gain more happiness

Post by cuttynaw**於(2007/01/10 16:41:36)回應

我真的覺得 此時此刻的我 真的很幸福謝謝大家! 祝福大家!!^_^

Post by li6012**於(2006/12/26 16:52:27)回應

幸福的定義:是遇見一個真心愛你,而你也很愛他的那種感受。

Post by patricia888wa**於(2006/12/23 01:15:48)回應

http://tw.mb.yahoo.com/fashion/board.php?bname=152965925&action=m&tid=50

Post by ztoz03**於(2006/12/19 20:42:03)回應

回應 liuh 這就是…傳統的幸福概念呀!!! 這當然也不是要大家什麼都不管…只是要懂! 這些並不是幸不幸福的元素! 要懂得突破既定的規矩! 這不容易. 卻很值得大家放手一搏唷!!!

Post by pingchu20**於(2006/12/17 01:50:04)回應

I am so happy to see you all sharing your feeling on this simple article. Happiness is a journey and a state of mind. The point I want to share is that happiness is a choice and requires effort. Yes, it is not easy and it can be hard work but it is not impossible to achieve happiness. Happiness requires cultivating positive thinking habits. eg. forgiveness, contentment, living in the moment.

Post by erica_b**於(2006/12/15 17:43:06)回應

幸福是充分的自我實現,及知足。

Post by ee94510**於(2006/12/14 13:15:11)回應”幸福是找來的,你可以選擇讓自己活得很快樂。寬恕也是種幸福,有勇氣的人才會寬容。”很棒的一句話^^ 原諒跟寬恕真的需要勇氣的~

Post by snoopybaby1ki**於(2006/12/10 16:13:11)回應

“知足”..就會得到快樂及幸福感….但平凡的我們要做到真的好難好難!!!共勉之

Post by liuh**於(2006/12/09 22:52:03)回應

老公不乖、小孩闖禍、跟公婆有複雜的關係,如果有這些問題都不去理它,然後去追求自己所謂的幸福,我想這樣的幸福好像有點不切實際吧!經營一個快樂健康的家庭,自然就會時時感受到幸福了。

Post by tk011**於(2006/12/09 15:57:29)回應

我覺得幸福ㄋ,就是當小孩坐在餐桌前對我說,煮得好好吃ㄛ,我還要~

Post by godream**於(2006/12/09 14:05:45)回應

很棒的文章

Post by hitomi40**於(2006/12/07 02:35:58)回應

我覺得幸福並不是吃好東西就叫幸福~如果能很開心的吃一碗粥那為什麼要花錢去吃一盤鮑魚料理呢?^^

Post by chenjean**於(2006/12/06 20:18:31)回應

“白開水”喝起來沒味道 但是是必需品 我想開心 快樂 就在當下的每一分.每一秒!!

Post by lindawu**於(2006/12/06 16:56:05)回應

幸福是靠自已創造的…只要心存感恩知足常樂就會很幸福哦~

Post by crvone69**於(2006/12/06 11:32:55)回應

快樂真的會比幸福更容易達成:吃到自己喜歡的東西感覺快樂,跟自己喜歡的人在一起覺得快樂..等,快樂的人會吸引快樂的人.事.物,我們的生活中充斥著工作與雜事,每每想要?自己多做ㄧ點事情的時候,卻不斷的找尋各種藉口:沒時間啊.想睡覺啊.老公要人家照顧啊.公婆在家不方便出去啊…等,在這麼有限的空間和時間內,要如何找到屬於自己的快樂和幸福,真的只有靠自己的努力,畢竟自己都不愛的人,又怎麼渴望別人來愛呢?

Post by shumin67**於(2006/12/06 00:55:16)回應

幸福是自己去爭取來的,而非被動等待到來~大家都要幸福唷~

Post by xuran**於(2006/12/05 21:01:11)回應

幸福是創造愛 ,珍惜愛,聆聽自已內心的聲音,在堅強中讓自己學會寬容,在寬容中 讓自己鍛鍊的更為堅強

Post by tw_riv**於(2006/12/05 18:14:46)回應

看完了覺得很感動因為是從一個男性的觀點卻道出了女性最深的渴望 just be myself 希望台灣男人都可以了解並支持

Post by hua67520**於(2006/12/05 16:37:47)回應

做自己很容易嗎? 不為薪水工作做得到嗎? 極力嘗試平衡現實和想像中的理想境界, 使終覺得好難….

Post bymai09**於(2006/12/05 13:55:55)回應

做自己勇敢去做…不後悔… 相信幸福就在身邊…珍惜每分每秒!!

Post bymickeyandmelo**於(2006/12/05 04:52:28)回應

“快樂也是一天,不快樂也是一天” 一句簡單的話卻好深奧,因為能真正能完成這句話的人,我想應該少之少,我正在努力學習中,學習如何快樂的看每件事,如何樂觀的過人生中的每一天,我想快樂才是真正的~幸福~

Post bycrane1**於(2006/12/04 14:01:48)回應

活在當下 , 知足常樂.

Post byjessie-huan**於(2006/12/03 09:34:23)回應

女生就要是做自己,自己認同自己,相對別人才會認同你

Post byellen03**於(2006/12/03 01:31:10)回應

I will find my own happiness! 我會找到幸福的!

Post byyiyi6305**於(2006/12/02 21:20:57)回應

放輕鬆-學會知足

Post bye2226137**於(2006/12/01 08:58:03)回應

或許應該從現在起為自己而活,過去都一直為別人而活,以致於找不到幸福,但從現在起,我想幸福應該就在不遠處了吧!

Post bylilypp**於(2006/11/29 22:23:59)回應

心情的指標~我想就像這篇所寫的 是自己決定的 慶幸我是個樂觀的人~ 幸福!從這篇我了解了~會嘗試自己好好把

Post byboss67ki**於(2006/11/29 13:13:33)回應

寬容的,是參與的,這是你可以決定的好棒的幸福感喔!謝謝您!

Post bylian_li**於(2006/11/29 10:48:59)回應

我很贊同你的見解但是我不是很同意你的中外比較法我個人真的沒有覺得美國的月亮比較圓 (現實是啦)但是 真的是個人修為不關你的國籍跟文化差異的!

Post byyoyolin19**於(2006/11/29 04:58:50)回應

是啊!寬容的確須要勇氣… 當初背叛的他告訴我他們現在很幸福,雖然內心仍有不捨但我終究還是獻上我的祝福...祝福他們白頭偕老 永遠幸福.相信選擇放下的我 同時真正屬於我的幸福應該就在不遠處?

Post by pingchu20**於(2006/11/29 00:02:00)回應

We all need to be the student of ouselves. If you don’t spend time to ge to know yourself, you will constantly be challenged by the conventional wisdom. We need to make new friends who support us. Chinese men has failed, period. I also believe that Chinese women will take control of the future in Chinese society. Women has all the qualities for the future leader. The time is on their side.

Post by karencc01**於(2006/11/28 17:10:06)回應

很棒的文~

Post by luke7608**於(2006/11/28 02:12:16)回應

我覺得真實表達自己的感受用說的很容易~ 但卻要有很大的勇氣去實行~ 因為我們畢竟是群體的生活~要不受輿論的束縛或壓力實在很難~ 我就覺得我身邊很多人為了安定而選擇跟現實妥協~ 我似乎也開始做出這樣的選擇~ 但這也沒有誰對或誰錯~畢竟理想和現實大家只能靠自己去努力達到一個平衡~ 不過還是有夢最美拉~ㄏㄏ朋友跟我分享的一句話:被嘲笑的夢想~更有被實現的價值~ 好像跟幸福無關~哈哈

Post by teresa7943**於(2006/11/27 18:21:46)回應

真實表達自己的感受最重要不因外在事物而改變自 己的感受樂觀積極地面對人生將會活得更快樂^^

Post by ellenshiah_20**於(2006/11/26 01:31:48)回應

在英文, 幸福 為 ” happiness” 亦及快樂, 是同意字. 會累, 會在乎別人的眼光, 是造成自己不快樂的原因, 其實 ” 心” 不要累, 自在活著才是真的. 但同時要溫柔的對待別人

Post by yuanhsiumi**於(2006/11/25 18:53:11)回應

做自己~看似簡單的事情.但生存在習於賦予女性過多的包袱與義務的台灣社會中,要做自己,似乎要有過人的體力與毅力.

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