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Cafe Nonzero\u300d<\/p>\n<p>Post by pingchu20**\u65bc(2007\/08\/09 10:57:50)\u56de\u61c9<\/p>\n<p>Dear Amy: You are absolutely right on. I agree with you 100 percent. \ud83d\ude42 Welcome to the Nonzero Cafe!<\/p>\n<p>Post by amy18**\u65bc(2007\/08\/09 00:50:21)\u56de\u61c9<\/p>\n<p>\u6c92\u932f \u5e78\u798f\u771f\u7684\u662f\u81ea\u5df1\u627e\u7684 \u5f88\u591a\u4eba\u5e38\u5e38\u6703\u81ea\u6028\u81ea\u54c0 \u53bb\u7fa8\u6155\u5225\u4eba \u5176\u5be6\u4e0d\u8ad6\u4f60\u662f\u4f55\u4eba \u626e\u6f14\u8457\u4ec0\u9ebc\u89d2\u8272 \u904e\u600e\u9ebc\u6a23\u7684\u751f\u6d3b \u77e5\u8db3\u5c31\u662f\u5e78\u798f \u4f46\u73fe\u5be6\u7e3d\u662f\u5f88\u96e3 \u6211\u770b\u4e86\u6587\u7ae0\u5f8c \u89ba\u5f97\u8981\u52aa\u529b\u505a\u5230\u9019\u9ede \u5fc5\u7adf\u4eba\u751f\u662f\u81ea\u5df1\u7684 \u5f88\u591a\u4e8b\u90fd\u662f\u81ea\u5df1\u53bb\u6c7a\u5b9a\u7684 \u4f55\u8b02\u5e78\u798f\u5c31\u662f\u81ea\u5df1\u6700\u6e05\u695a \u52a0\u6cb9\u4e86<\/p>\n<p>Post by pingchu20**\u65bc(2007\/07\/29 16:19:22)\u56de\u61c9<\/p>\n<p>Dear Fawn: You are absolutely right. People also did not spend enough time with themselves. This is why the solitude is an important ritual people should embrace. Thank you for joining this dialogue.<\/p>\n<p>Post by dearfawn**\u65bc(2007\/07\/22 06:40:56)\u56de\u61c9<\/p>\n<p>If you can deeply understand yourself then you&#8217;ll grab what&#8217;s welfare or happiness. The question is most of people hardly understand themselves.<\/p>\n<p>Post by pingchu20**\u65bc(2007\/07\/15 06:25:10)\u56de\u61c9<\/p>\n<p>Dear Larua: You are a very lucky person. We all have choices. To confront the adversity with courage is a choice. The important thing is to feel that you are not powerless.You can create your destiny.<\/p>\n<p>Post by laura_y_cha**\u65bc(2007\/07\/12 11:26:48)\u56de\u61c9<\/p>\n<p>\u6709\u8a31\u591a\u670b\u53cb\u5e38\u554f\u6211.\u70ba\u4ec0\u9ebc\u7d93\u5e38\u4fdd\u6301\u5728\u5feb\u6a02\u7684?\u614b?\u5176\u5be6\u6211\u7684\u65b9\u6cd5\u8207\u7279\u8cea\u6bcf\u500b\u4eba\u90fd\u6709.\u6211\u662f\u500b\u6975\u5bb9\u6613\u6eff\u8db3\u7684\u4eba.\u5728\u4eba\u751f\u6bcf\u500b\u968e\u6bb5\u8a72\u64c1\u4ec0\u9ebc.\u6211\u6703\u7de8\u7e54\u5922\u60f3\u4f46\u78ba\u9806\u670d\u73fe\u5be6.\u6211\u7e3d\u770b\u90a3\u4e9b\u6bd4\u6211\u8f9b\u82e6\u7684\u4eba\u800c\u5c0d\u81ea\u5df1\u6240\u64c1\u6709\u7684\u66f4\u52a0\u73cd\u60dc.\u9019\u6a23\u7684\u500b\u6027\u8b93\u6211\u5728\u9810\u5230\u56f0\u96e3\u4e5f\u90fd\u6b63\u9762\u601d\u8003.\u6211\u975e\u5e38\u611b\u807d\u6f14\u8b1b.\u807d\u807d\u5225\u4eba\u7684\u4eba\u751f\u89c0.\u52aa\u529b\u7684\u7528\u5728\u81ea\u5df1\u8eab\u4e0a.\u66f4\u91cd\u8981\u7684\u662f\u5f71\u97ff\u8eab\u908a\u7684\u6210\u70ba\u5feb\u6a02\u7684\u4eba.\u55ef!\u6211\u4e5f\u6709\u6211\u7684\u56f0\u5883\u4f46\u9664\u4e86\u52c7\u6562\u9762\u5c0d\u597d\u50cf\u4e5f\u5225\u7121\u9078\u64c7.\u54c8!\u9019\u5c31\u662f\u4eba\u751f&#8230;laura<\/p>\n<p>Post by pingchu20**\u65bc(2007\/06\/28 10:36:49)\u56de\u61c9<\/p>\n<p>Well said, thank you, Paley.<\/p>\n<p>Post by paley99**\u65bc(2007\/06\/27 00:51:46)\u56de\u61c9<\/p>\n<p>\u4eba\u7e3d\u662f\u63f9\u8ca0\u8457\u8a31\u591a\u7684\u8cac\u4efb\uff0c\u8981\u4f9d\u5faa\u5225\u4eba\u4f86\u7d66\u4e88\u81ea\u5df1\u5e78\u798f\uff0c\u5feb\u6a02\u7684\u65e5\u5b50\u5c31\u4e0d\u6703\u5f88\u591a\u4e86\uff01\u77e5\u8db3\u5c31\u6703\u589e\u52a0\u5e78\u798f\uff0c\u4e0d\u8ad6\u662f\u5426\u4e00\u500b\u4eba\u904e\uff0c\u9858\u5927\u5bb6\u90fd\u89ba\u5f97\u81ea\u5df1\u662f\u5e78\u798f\u7684\uff01\u52a0\u6cb9\uff01<\/p>\n<p>Post by pingchu20**\u65bc(2007\/06\/23 23:57:20)\u56de\u61c9<\/p>\n<p>Anny: please remember that we all are accountable for our own behavior and decision.When you are willing to take the responsibility, you dont&#8217; need to forgive anything or anyone.You are free at last.<\/p>\n<p>Post by anny6782**\u65bc(2007\/06\/19 14:08:55)\u56de\u61c9<\/p>\n<p>\u5bec\u6055\u4e5f\u662f\u7a2e\u5e78\u798f\uff0c \u6709\u52c7\u6c23\u7684\u4eba\u624d\u6703\u5bec\u5bb9\u66fe\u7d93\u6211\u4ee5\u70ba\u300e\u4ed6\u300f\u6703\u662f\u6211\u6700\u7d42\u7684\u4f34\u4fb6&#8230;&#8230;\u60f3\u4e0d\u5230\u8d70\u5230\u4e86\u516b\u5e74\u5f8c&#8230;\u6211\u5011\u9084\u662f\u5206\u958b\u4e86&#8230;.. \u6216\u8a31&#8230;.\u9019\u662f\u8001\u5929\u723a\u8981\u9001\u7d66\u6211\u95dc\u65bc\u300e\u5bec\u6028\u300f\u7684\u9019\u9580\u529f\u8ab2\u5427\uff01\u6240\u4ee5\u6211\u4e00\u5b9a\u6703\u52aa\u529b\u7684\uff0e\uff0e\uff0e\uff0e\uff0e\uff0e\uff0e\uff0e<\/p>\n<p>Post by janny5808**\u65bc(2007\/06\/14 10:26:43)\u56de\u61c9<\/p>\n<p>\u6211\u89ba\u5f97\u5e78\u798f\u662f\u6bcf\u7576\u9047\u5230\u56f0\u96e3\u80fd\u51b7\u975c\u3001\u8f15\u9b06\u9762\u5c0d\u3001\u4e0d\u9003\u907f,\u52c7\u6562\u4e00\u8d77\u89e3\u6c7a,\u4e00\u8d77\u6aa2\u8a0e\u3001\u53cd\u7701\u5f8c\uff0c\u90a3\u4efd\u6210\u5c31&#8230;.\u5c31\u662f\u5e78\u798f&#8230;&#8230;..<\/p>\n<p>Post by chenhs20**\u65bc(2007\/06\/12 17:50:19)\u56de\u61c9<\/p>\n<p>\u5e78\u798f\u662f\u627e\u4f86\u7684&#8230;&#8230;..\u9019\u53e5\u8a71\u5f62\u5bb9\u7684\u5f88\u8cbc\u5207<\/p>\n<p>Post by yoyo5411a**\u65bc(2007\/06\/12 15:43:31)\u56de\u61c9<\/p>\n<p>\u5e78\u798f?\u7576\u4f60\u9084\u6d3b\u5728\u9019\u4e16\u4e0a\u591a\u7d66\u5225\u4eba\u4e00\u4e9b\u6eab\u6696\uff0e\u7576\u63a5\u53d7\u7684\u4eba\u7d66\u4f60\u4e00\u500b\u7b11\u5bb9\u90a3\u7a2e\u611f\u89ba\u662f\u5f7c\u6b64\u90fd\u5e78\u798f\uff0e\u6eab\u6696<\/p>\n<p>Post by virginia111**\u65bc(2007\/04\/19 15:15:12)\u56de\u61c9<\/p>\n<p>\u592a\u68d2\u4e86\u6211\u975e\u5e38\u540c\u610f \u5e78\u798f\u7684\u4e3b\u6b0a\u5728\u6211\u5011 \u81ea\u5df1<\/p>\n<p>Post by i26**\u65bc(2007\/03\/11 06:25:59)\u56de\u61c9<\/p>\n<p>\u5982\u4eba\u98f2\u6c34`\u51b7\u6696\u81ea\u77e5\uff1b\u53ea\u662f.\u5927\u90e8\u5206\u7684\u4eba.\u90fd\u662f\u5065\u5fd8\u7684&#8230;&#8230;\u539f\u4f86.\u5e78\u798f\u5c31\u5728\u5fc3\u4e2d&#8230;&#8230;.\u3002<\/p>\n<p>Post by ontic.**\u65bc(2007\/02\/26 10:38:18)\u56de\u61c9<\/p>\n<p>\u505a\u932f\u4e8b\u60c5\u4e5f\u662f\u4e00\u4ef6\u5e78\u798f~<\/p>\n<p>Post bysuesue04**\u65bc(2007\/02\/20 10:59:31)\u56de\u61c9<\/p>\n<p>\u6211\u559c\u6b61\u6587\u7ae0\u88e1\u4e8c\u53e5\u8a71: \u5bec\u6055\u4e5f\u662f\u7a2e\u5e78\u798f\uff0c \u6709\u52c7\u6c23\u7684\u4eba\u624d\u6703\u5bec\u5bb9<\/p>\n<p>Post by lws01**\u65bc(2007\/02\/17 09:21:21)\u56de\u61c9<\/p>\n<p>\u7684\u78ba&#8230;..\u6709\u592a\u591a\u4eba\u4e0d\u61c2\u7684\u5e78\u798f\u662f\u4ec0\u9ebc \u624d\u6703\u6028\u5929\u6028\u5730&#8230;..<\/p>\n<p>Post by pingchu20**\u65bc(2007\/01\/26 03:25:07)\u56de\u61c9<\/p>\n<p>Madly in love definitely will bring you happiness. However, we also fall out of love. Therefore, living in the moment, staying positive, detachment and accepting the impermanence are facts of life. It is a good sign that people realize that money can only increase your happiness so much. Be a satisficer, not a maximizer, will definitely help you to gain more happiness<\/p>\n<p>Post by cuttynaw**\u65bc(2007\/01\/10 16:41:36)\u56de\u61c9<\/p>\n<p>\u6211\u771f\u7684\u89ba\u5f97 \u6b64\u6642\u6b64\u523b\u7684\u6211 \u771f\u7684\u5f88\u5e78\u798f\u8b1d\u8b1d\u5927\u5bb6! \u795d\u798f\u5927\u5bb6!!^_^<\/p>\n<p>Post by li6012**\u65bc(2006\/12\/26 16:52:27)\u56de\u61c9<\/p>\n<p>\u5e78\u798f\u7684\u5b9a\u7fa9\uff1a\u662f\u9047\u898b\u4e00\u500b\u771f\u5fc3\u611b\u4f60\uff0c\u800c\u4f60\u4e5f\u5f88\u611b\u4ed6\u7684\u90a3\u7a2e\u611f\u53d7\u3002<\/p>\n<p>Post by patricia888wa**\u65bc(2006\/12\/23 01:15:48)\u56de\u61c9<\/p>\n<p>http:\/\/tw.mb.yahoo.com\/fashion\/board.php?bname=152965925&#038;action=m&#038;tid=50<\/p>\n<p>Post by ztoz03**\u65bc(2006\/12\/19 20:42:03)\u56de\u61c9<\/p>\n<p>\u56de\u61c9 liuh \u9019\u5c31\u662f&#8230;\u50b3\u7d71\u7684\u5e78\u798f\u6982\u5ff5\u5440!!! \u9019\u7576\u7136\u4e5f\u4e0d\u662f\u8981\u5927\u5bb6\u4ec0\u9ebc\u90fd\u4e0d\u7ba1&#8230;\u53ea\u662f\u8981\u61c2! \u9019\u4e9b\u4e26\u4e0d\u662f\u5e78\u4e0d\u5e78\u798f\u7684\u5143\u7d20! \u8981\u61c2\u5f97\u7a81\u7834\u65e2\u5b9a\u7684\u898f\u77e9! \u9019\u4e0d\u5bb9\u6613. \u537b\u5f88\u503c\u5f97\u5927\u5bb6\u653e\u624b\u4e00\u640f\u5537!!!<\/p>\n<p>Post by pingchu20**\u65bc(2006\/12\/17 01:50:04)\u56de\u61c9<\/p>\n<p>I am so happy to see you all sharing your feeling on this simple article. Happiness is a journey and a state of mind. The point I want to share is that happiness is a choice and requires effort. Yes, it is not easy and it can be hard work but it is not impossible to achieve happiness. Happiness requires cultivating positive thinking habits. eg. forgiveness, contentment, living in the moment.<\/p>\n<p>Post by erica_b**\u65bc(2006\/12\/15 17:43:06)\u56de\u61c9<\/p>\n<p>\u5e78\u798f\u662f\u5145\u5206\u7684\u81ea\u6211\u5be6\u73fe\uff0c\u53ca\u77e5\u8db3\u3002<\/p>\n<p>Post by ee94510**\u65bc(2006\/12\/14 13:15:11)\u56de\u61c9&#8221;\u5e78\u798f\u662f\u627e\u4f86\u7684\uff0c\u4f60\u53ef\u4ee5\u9078\u64c7\u8b93\u81ea\u5df1\u6d3b\u5f97\u5f88\u5feb\u6a02\u3002\u5bec\u6055\u4e5f\u662f\u7a2e\u5e78\u798f\uff0c\u6709\u52c7\u6c23\u7684\u4eba\u624d\u6703\u5bec\u5bb9\u3002&#8221;\u5f88\u68d2\u7684\u4e00\u53e5\u8a71^^ \u539f\u8ad2\u8ddf\u5bec\u6055\u771f\u7684\u9700\u8981\u52c7\u6c23\u7684~<\/p>\n<p>Post by snoopybaby1ki**\u65bc(2006\/12\/10 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16:37:47)\u56de\u61c9<\/p>\n<p>\u505a\u81ea\u5df1\u5f88\u5bb9\u6613\u55ce? \u4e0d\u70ba\u85aa\u6c34\u5de5\u4f5c\u505a\u5f97\u5230\u55ce? \u6975\u529b\u5617\u8a66\u5e73\u8861\u73fe\u5be6\u548c\u60f3\u50cf\u4e2d\u7684\u7406\u60f3\u5883\u754c, \u4f7f\u7d42\u89ba\u5f97\u597d\u96e3&#8230;.<\/p>\n<p>Post bymai09**\u65bc(2006\/12\/05 13:55:55)\u56de\u61c9<\/p>\n<p>\u505a\u81ea\u5df1\u52c7\u6562\u53bb\u505a&#8230;\u4e0d\u5f8c\u6094&#8230; \u76f8\u4fe1\u5e78\u798f\u5c31\u5728\u8eab\u908a&#8230;\u73cd\u60dc\u6bcf\u5206\u6bcf\u79d2!!<\/p>\n<p>Post bymickeyandmelo**\u65bc(2006\/12\/05 04:52:28)\u56de\u61c9<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;\u5feb\u6a02\u4e5f\u662f\u4e00\u5929\uff0c\u4e0d\u5feb\u6a02\u4e5f\u662f\u4e00\u5929&#8221; 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13:13:33)\u56de\u61c9<\/p>\n<p>\u5bec\u5bb9\u7684\uff0c\u662f\u53c3\u8207\u7684\uff0c\u9019\u662f\u4f60\u53ef\u4ee5\u6c7a\u5b9a\u7684\u597d\u68d2\u7684\u5e78\u798f\u611f\u5594\uff01\u8b1d\u8b1d\u60a8\uff01<\/p>\n<p>Post bylian_li**\u65bc(2006\/11\/29 10:48:59)\u56de\u61c9<\/p>\n<p>\u6211\u5f88\u8d0a\u540c\u4f60\u7684\u898b\u89e3\u4f46\u662f\u6211\u4e0d\u662f\u5f88\u540c\u610f\u4f60\u7684\u4e2d\u5916\u6bd4\u8f03\u6cd5\u6211\u500b\u4eba\u771f\u7684\u6c92\u6709\u89ba\u5f97\u7f8e\u570b\u7684\u6708\u4eae\u6bd4\u8f03\u5713 \uff08\u73fe\u5be6\u662f\u5566\uff09\u4f46\u662f \u771f\u7684\u662f\u500b\u4eba\u4fee\u70ba\u4e0d\u95dc\u4f60\u7684\u570b\u7c4d\u8ddf\u6587\u5316\u5dee\u7570\u7684\uff01<\/p>\n<p>Post byyoyolin19**\u65bc(2006\/11\/29 04:58:50)\u56de\u61c9<\/p>\n<p>\u662f\u554a!\u5bec\u5bb9\u7684\u78ba\u9808\u8981\u52c7\u6c23&#8230; 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The time is on their side.<\/p>\n<p>Post by karencc01**\u65bc(2006\/11\/28 17:10:06)\u56de\u61c9<\/p>\n<p>\u5f88\u68d2\u7684\u6587~<\/p>\n<p>Post by luke7608**\u65bc(2006\/11\/28 02:12:16)\u56de\u61c9<\/p>\n<p>\u6211\u89ba\u5f97\u771f\u5be6\u8868\u9054\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u611f\u53d7\u7528\u8aaa\u7684\u5f88\u5bb9\u6613~ \u4f46\u537b\u8981\u6709\u5f88\u5927\u7684\u52c7\u6c23\u53bb\u5be6\u884c~ \u56e0\u70ba\u6211\u5011\u7562\u7adf\u662f\u7fa4\u9ad4\u7684\u751f\u6d3b~\u8981\u4e0d\u53d7\u8f3f\u8ad6\u7684\u675f\u7e1b\u6216\u58d3\u529b\u5be6\u5728\u5f88\u96e3~ \u6211\u5c31\u89ba\u5f97\u6211\u8eab\u908a\u5f88\u591a\u4eba\u70ba\u4e86\u5b89\u5b9a\u800c\u9078\u64c7\u8ddf\u73fe\u5be6\u59a5\u5354~ \u6211\u4f3c\u4e4e\u4e5f\u958b\u59cb\u505a\u51fa\u9019\u6a23\u7684\u9078\u64c7~ \u4f46\u9019\u4e5f\u6c92\u6709\u8ab0\u5c0d\u6216\u8ab0\u932f~\u7562\u7adf\u7406\u60f3\u548c\u73fe\u5be6\u5927\u5bb6\u53ea\u80fd\u9760\u81ea\u5df1\u53bb\u52aa\u529b\u9054\u5230\u4e00\u500b\u5e73\u8861~ 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\u81ea\u5728\u6d3b\u8457\u624d\u662f\u771f\u7684. \u4f46\u540c\u6642\u8981\u6eab\u67d4\u7684\u5c0d\u5f85\u5225\u4eba<\/p>\n<p>Post by yuanhsiumi**\u65bc(2006\/11\/25 18:53:11)\u56de\u61c9<\/p>\n<p>\u505a\u81ea\u5df1~\u770b\u4f3c\u7c21\u55ae\u7684\u4e8b\u60c5.\u4f46\u751f\u5b58\u5728\u7fd2\u65bc\u8ce6\u4e88\u5973\u6027\u904e\u591a\u7684\u5305\u88b1\u8207\u7fa9\u52d9\u7684\u53f0\u7063\u793e\u6703\u4e2d,\u8981\u505a\u81ea\u5df1,\u4f3c\u4e4e\u8981\u6709\u904e\u4eba\u7684\u9ad4\u529b\u8207\u6bc5\u529b.<br 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