{"id":530,"date":"2009-01-28T06:20:08","date_gmt":"2009-01-28T06:20:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/pingchu.com\/?p=530"},"modified":"2009-01-28T06:47:33","modified_gmt":"2009-01-28T06:47:33","slug":"%e8%a6%81%e6%84%9b%ef%bc%8c%e5%b0%b1%e5%bf%85%e9%a0%88%e6%89%bf%e6%93%94%e9%a2%a8%e9%9a%aa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/pingchu.com\/?p=530","title":{"rendered":"\u8981\u611b\uff0c\u5c31\u5fc5\u9808\u627f\u64d4\u98a8\u96aa"},"content":{"rendered":"<h4><span style=\"color: #3366ff;\">Love is taking risk. Feel the risk and do it anyway. &#8211; Ping Chu &#8211;<\/span><\/h4>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-536 alignleft\" title=\"Love at UPenn\" src=\"http:\/\/pingchu.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/01\/cimg0542.jpg\" alt=\"Love at UPenn\" width=\"325\" height=\"243\" srcset=\"http:\/\/pingchu.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/01\/cimg0542.jpg 640w, http:\/\/pingchu.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/01\/cimg0542-300x225.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 325px) 85vw, 325px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u6700\u8fd1\u63a5\u53d7Elle \u96dc\u8a8c\u7684\u5c08\u8a2a\uff0c\u5e0c\u671b\u6211\u80fd\u5728\u65b0\u7684\u4e00\u5e74\uff0c\u5206\u4eab\u6709\u95dc\u611b\u7684\u8b70\u984c\u3002\u6211\u8a8d\u70baElle \u96dc\u8a8c\u7684\u7acb\u5fb7\u5148\u751f\u554f\u7684\u554f\u984c\u5f88\u597d\u3002\u7279\u5730\u82b1\u4e86\u6642\u9593\u5c07\u6211\u7684\u56de\u7b54\u9644\u9304\u65bc\u5f8c:<\/p>\n<p>\u5c0d\u4f60\u800c\u8a00\uff0c\u611b\u662f\u4ec0\u9ebc\uff1f\u5b83\u5982\u4f55\u5f71\u97ff\u4f60\u751f\u6d3b\u7684\u610f\u7fa9\u548c\u614b\u5ea6\uff1f<br \/>\nLove is to be able to be your authentic self with this person. It makes you want to be a better person.<\/p>\n<p>\u4f60\u89ba\u5f97\u7236\u5973\u4e4b\u9593\u7684\u611b\u61c9\u8a72\u662f\u4ec0\u9ebc\uff1f\u53ef\u4ee5\u5f62\u5bb9\u4e00\u4e0b\uff1f\u4f60\u6700\u6b23\u8cde\u7684\u4e00\u7a2e\u611b\uff1f<br \/>\nPart mentor part friend. Parental love is about providing a safety net and safe haven so our children can feel secure to pursue their own dream. It\u2019s never about playing the guilt card. I don\u2019t expect my children to live my dreams.<\/p>\n<p>\u4f60\u548c\u4f60\u81ea\u5df1or\u53e6\u4e00\u534aor\u7236\u6bcdor\u59ca\u59b9or\u670b\u53cb\uff08\u9078\u64c7\u5176\u4e00\u5373\u53ef\uff09\u4e4b\u9593\uff0c\u4f60\u611f\u53d7\u6700\u6df1\u523b\u7684\u611b\uff1f<br \/>\nFamily members are bound by genetic code sharing. Love is about choice, about whom you consciously choose to commit to.<\/p>\n<p>\u4f60\u4ec0\u9ebc\u6642\u5019\u958b\u59cb\u767c\u73fe\u611b\u7684\u91cd\u8981\u3001\u611b\u5c0d\u4f60\u81ea\u5df1\u4f86\u8aaa\u7684\u610f\u7fa9\uff1f<br \/>\nAfter I&#8217;ve accumulated some life experiences and became aware of my own mortality, only then I started to appreciate love more. Mature love is the trend now because divorce is more common and we live longer. Love is just as essential for mature people as young people.<\/p>\n<p>\u95dc\u65bc\u5206\u4eab\u611b\uff0c\u4f60\u611f\u53d7\u6700\u6df1\u7684\u9ad4\u6703\u662f\u2026\uff1f<br \/>\nThe more you give, the more you have.<\/p>\n<p>In Chinese culture, expressed love is not considered as divine as unspoken love. Contrarily to this, I believe it is crucial to express our love. Saying \u201cI love you\u201d is good but we need to take it a step further to also express our gratitude.<\/p>\n<p>Please say \u201cThank you for loving me\u201d to your loved one today.<\/p>\n<p><code><br \/>\n<\/code><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Love is taking risk. Feel the risk and do it anyway. &#8211; Ping Chu &#8211; \u6700\u8fd1\u63a5\u53d7Elle \u96dc\u8a8c\u7684\u5c08\u8a2a\uff0c\u5e0c\u671b\u6211\u80fd\u5728\u65b0\u7684\u4e00\u5e74\uff0c\u5206\u4eab\u6709\u95dc\u611b\u7684\u8b70\u984c\u3002\u6211\u8a8d\u70baElle \u96dc\u8a8c\u7684\u7acb\u5fb7\u5148\u751f\u554f\u7684\u554f\u984c\u5f88\u597d\u3002\u7279\u5730\u82b1\u4e86\u6642\u9593\u5c07\u6211\u7684\u56de\u7b54\u9644\u9304\u65bc\u5f8c: \u5c0d\u4f60\u800c\u8a00\uff0c\u611b\u662f\u4ec0\u9ebc\uff1f\u5b83\u5982\u4f55\u5f71\u97ff\u4f60\u751f\u6d3b\u7684\u610f\u7fa9\u548c\u614b\u5ea6\uff1f Love is to be able to be your authentic self with this person. It makes you want to be a better person. \u4f60\u89ba\u5f97\u7236\u5973\u4e4b\u9593\u7684\u611b\u61c9\u8a72\u662f\u4ec0\u9ebc\uff1f\u53ef\u4ee5\u5f62\u5bb9\u4e00\u4e0b\uff1f\u4f60\u6700\u6b23\u8cde\u7684\u4e00\u7a2e\u611b\uff1f Part mentor part friend. 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